What Would you Do??

So readers I have a question. If you had a friend and you know she was being cheated on would you tell her. Keep in mind you have PROOF. I’m sure a lot of us have already gone through this before. Either you were cheated on and your friend knew it or you knew your friends other half was cheating. I know I have at least once. I know a lot of women just wont tell. I don’t judge anyone that wouldn’t but me personally I’d tell. Why wouldn’t you tell her? The only way I wouldn’t tell if I knew she had some type of emotional or mental problems where she may try to harm herself. Now after I’ve told her once and she decided to stay…I wouldn’t go there again with her. Most importantly it should be revealed because it could affect her in the long run. See men who go out and sleep with these sideline women don’t always wrap it up. They’ve grown accustom to unprotected sex at home. They trust this new female enough not to protect themselves with her. And lord knows how big of a mistake that is. Who knows what can be passed. Whether it be Gonorrhea or HIV, it’s a STD carried from this woman to you. I think that everyone that are engaged in sexual activities should use protection every time. Most people in society who are in monogamous relationships (So they think) don’t feel the need to use protection. Then there’s also the embarrassment and betrayal of your other half being out there with somebody else. I’m sure no one enters a relationship seeking a 3 way connection therefore you should NOT be in one. I believe in Realness. If your man feels he cant make a commitment to you then he should at least be man enough to tell you. Afterwards you should either (A) accept it or (B) find you a one woman man. Point-Blank-Period.

Whatver you choose to do, you can’t do anything unless know about it 1st. If you have no knowledge of it then What can you do?? How many times a day do we notice ourselves in situations where we’re like Dam if I had known that _____ cost that much I would’ve brought more money. Or girl if you had called me and said you needed help, I would’ve helped you. Knowledge is Power. With power you can do anything. So when you have that information you have the power and if you don’t pass it on to your friend then it leaves her powerless. You saying “Aww I wanna stay out of it for the sake of our friendship” is funny to me. In all seriousness you having this information and not telling me is like you’re on his side. That’s not a friend!!! If you really are hesitant about getting in the middle of something then why not have someone tell me who is bold enough to do so. Or even send it to me anonymously. You know through email or postal services. However you do it, just be sure to get me the info. Nevertheless many don’t hesitate to get on the phone and call our other friends and gossip about the shit. Which is only worsening the situation. My thing if you’re my friend why are you protecting my man and his Bullshit. Are you fucking my man too. Are you waiting in line for your turn. Or do you really hate me on the low and you’re glad this shit hit the fan. You never know what telling me may do. You may be saving a life. You never know if this other woman is psycho…. yada yada. I know you may say well what if she turns on me or doesn’t leave him. Okay that’s why you get it to her anonymously. Then again if you’re doing the right thing and she doesn’t respect that then you and her are not friends anyway. Whatever she does is her decision. Support her and stand behind her. Deuces(2222)

Women Cheat Too....

Now I don’t want anyone to get this misconstrued when I say Women Cheat Too. Maybe not all of them but 80% are engaging in cheat activites. You have your married woman who we take to be happily married and that’s just not so. You would assume they got married because all aspects of their relationship were on point or at their satisfaction. Over the years in a marriage, people fall into ruts and routine sex is no longer enough. Then you have the other reasons. First I want to say this: People always try to study reasons for men cheating. Still living in the cliché time like women cant (Won’t) Cheat. Well I’m gonna turn the tables and examine why women cheat. Because Baaabbbiiii Believe we do. See men think they are kings of the jungle (Tarzan like) and women (his Jane) will settle for anything they give. Sorry Come again!!! Some do settle and they live in pure misery (Literally). Then you have those who step out, get that fulfillment and are back at home before you even think about clocking out from work. Men wake up and Smell the Folgers….(Ummm Ummm Good!!!) This is the 2k’s and the way grandma and grandpa came up is nonexistent in today’s age. You better start handling you B.I=(Business) or someone else is bound to step in. That’s why we have a lot of females screaming Neyo’s Independent. They seem to feel men can’t do anything for them.

On another note you have the women who cheat because the men cheat or as I like to call them “ The ones throwing Rail for Rail”….. Men live a double standard and think they can cheat but women CAN’T (Point.Blank.Period). Those days are long gone like the Dinosaurs. And trust me when I say, this is far from out of the ordinary. This is very common behavior now a days. Women don’t cheat because they don’t love their mate. We Mos Def Love Em’.; BUT (emphasis on but) We Love ourselves More. Ever heard the quote “I Love you but I Love me too!” So a little advice if you don’t know Ask if she’s satisfied. If you don’t care to then DON’T be shocked when she either Leaves you, Fucks someone else, or Stops Fucking you altogether. Muuuahh Kisses to my Bitches (Deuces)!!!!