UPDATE

Hey Guys. I know I've been M.I.A but I've been getting my business together and Im still in the process of handling it. Im in the process of signing a record deal but I wont tell you with who just yet. I wanna make sure I good in every aspect before I let the world know. Just know I have big things in store but Im not neglecting my blog readers for no apparent reason. Ciao!! ~Lady

What Time

Somebody find me this clock. I'm always late and it'll fit right in to my hectic life.

Music Monday

Trey Songz --- Panty Droppa

Dam. I love this song. He teasing a chick though. Why you cut so short Trey. This is a panty droppa, baby making hit. If you ever find it hard to get in the mood. Turn this on. I know it turns me on everytime I hear it.

Do it Do it Trey. His album is the shizzle. He's grown alot and it shows.

Does Separated = Single

Well I don’t blog that often but I’m gonna start actually voicing my opinions on real life issues at least once every week. My blog needs it. The topic today was motivated by Alicia Keys and Swizz Beats’ [relationship]. <~ I use “relationship’’ loosely. I can kind of relate to their situation but mine is a tad bit different. I am/was (still deciding on our status) dating a separated guy. I live in a small city where everyone knows everyone and I’m 99% sure he is Separated. Before our relationship really started, to my knowledge he was separated for at least 5 years. God knows how long they were having problems. Anyhow, I don’t condone dating married men but I feel like his home was already broken and I wasn’t wreaking their relationship. We started out as only friends but friends led to a relationship. Now Im young and he was just a time passer. I wasn’t seeking a life long relationship because it’s unlikely that he’ll be my soul mate. So marriage wasn’t on my mind or anything like that. I don’t seek a committed partner because he cheated on his wife and will probably do the same to me. But I’m young and strong hearted and it’s all fun to me. My question for you is would you dated a person that is married yet separated from their spouse?? In my case, I felt like the separation is at a point that he should explore the dating scene. I mean he wasn’t living with her or anything for these 5 years and maybe more. They have had more than enough time to sort out all of their differences and see if they could work it out .On another note, at first she really didn’t like me and I understood her with that being her husband and all. But hey, she had a man living with her also. Eventually, like a year later she finally excepted it but she still doesn’t like me. As if I give a…Well in between her men (she changes like the weather) she calls and asks if they can work it out. He rejects and tell her there is nothing between them and never will be. I’ve been around him when he’s asked for a divorce and she says he’ll have to sue her before she willingly gives him one. And its one big headache and a divorce takes a lot of time and money. Plus this is the NEW generation and time is of the essence. Time waits for no man. So we like to get on with life and forget all the waiting. Some say I’m wrong and some say I’m not. I think if they’ve been dating for 5 or 6 years outside of their marriage then its pretty much over and it’s no need to pretend. What do you guys think???

For the Ladies

Top 20 Female Songs

1. Lauryn Hill--Ex-Factor

2. Monica--So Gone
3. Sunshine Anderson--Heard it all Before
4. Fantasia--Free Yourself
5. Toni Braxton--Just be a Man Alicia Keys
6. Rihanna--Take a Bow
7. Beyonce--Irreplaceable
8. Khia--Don’t trust No Nigga
9. Ashanti--Foolish
10. Erykah Badu--Call Tyrone
11. Kandi--Trade em in
12. Mary J Blige--I’m not gonna Cry
13. Melanie Fiona--Somebody come get me
14. Beyonce--Ego
15. Changing Faces--Ghettout
16. Kelly Price--Friend of Mine
17. Keyshia Cole/ Monica--Trust
18. Keri hilson--Turning me On
19. Truth Hurts--Truth Hurts
20. R.Kelly--When a woman’s Fed Up
((No Particular Order))

#Random

I know I've been M-I-A. Im on twitter alot. I also have a little business with my music that I'm handling and trust me it's real B-I-G-G. So hit me on twitter b/C im constantly talking ish on that Bitch. @WhoB3tter is the name. Im gonna do a little blogging later though and run through some of your blogs and drop some of opinions off. ~Ciao

New Years Eve

So me and the girls will be sipping a bottle of Remy while we bring in the New Year. "Dont know why but that Remy turn me to a Whore" ~Plies .I love that quote.

MoTiVaTiOn 101

A woman who wants a man with money is not a gold digger. A woman who wants a man for his money is a gold digger... <= RESPECT the subtle difference. I'd prefer her to have some type of standard then none at all.

DIG IT or Ditch It??

Big Bank Black --- Stop Playing

Mr. Try it Out has done it again. Lady gives this two thumbs up. Ya DIGG!!

CiROC it Out

New flovors of Ciroc are on the market. Red Berry and Coconut. Im thinking about trying the Red Berry. Im constantly trying that new shit. Wish I could get a bottle for the New Year but I doubt they have it down here yet. But you guys should try Ciroc and Lemonade, Its the shizzle! ~Lady